Monthly Archive for August, 2006

The Unknown Feeling

I now understand what the feeling is before leaving the country for study…There’s only one word to describe… Sad…

It was in my mind as if it happened in the same day, though the date is supposed to be yesterday… Wearing the blazer, it’s warming me up, but it has no effect to warm the cold atmosphere… I felt extreme sour when I’m about to part with my mother… Her tears amplify the sourness… Only if she didn’t cry, maybe I won’t cry for a few times over here… Or maybe it’s just a lame excuse for me to cry here… I don’t know… But of course I really hoped that she didn’t cry, and be happier to see me leaving the country… But still, she cried… I didn’t speak a word when listening to them talking… The tears are going to burst out…

Put aside the condition here, I shall only describe it next time… The only description I can give is our hostel is the only haven (and heaven) we have in Salem… You can say that I cried because of the substandard environment we have here, I don’t deny it… But as a matter of fact, I just don’t know how to make my mum (and myself) happy provided with the condition here is like that… I can’t bear to listen her crying… I know I’ll burst into tears also… That’s why I chose not to talk to her until I am ready and not to cry when I hear her voice… Hopefully tomorrow is the day… I remembered what happened in matric… It was horrible… I don’t want it to repeat now… I cannot let her blame herself for putting me into an undesirable condition… But how…

Thanks for all my friends for wasting their credit on me… The feeling is still uncontrollable… However it’s not constant… Every time after crying I can stop with a better mood (or mindset maybe) which I hope the frequency of such feeling attacks can be lowered till non-existent (or in Physics terms – negligible, Wakakakakaka)…

24 hours from now…

This should be the final post I make in Malaysia… In just 24 hours… I’ve sent my farewell SMS to almost everyone on my phone book… Cost me nearly RM10 credit… Whoosh… Hahaha… My foster father replied my message also… Hehe… Hopefully everyone will be well to see me when I am back… I am worrying of my elders… but what’s the use of worrying? Things have to go on… Hahaha… Taoism…

Gotta make this post short… Still many things waiting to be done… Just back from a dinner… The eldest brother today angin baik so treat us for a dinner at Six Happiness Restaurant… Haha… My first time to eat an abalone, yup, abalone… It’s RM28 per abalone anyway… But it’s expensive enough… Haha… And also Beijing Roasted Duck… Where the skin is eaten like popiah style… Damn… The whole restaurant’s watching us when 3 workers (Including the captain) are preparing the “popiah”… The popiah is actually the roasted duck skin rolled with a few stuffs… And the abalone comes with err… Swan’s leg?… Sort of… Something like a bigger version of chicken leg… But of course they made it much nicer than the chicken’s counterpart… LOL… If you wonder where did the meat goes, they made it into some kind of mee… Veli nice also… Duck mee… Hahaha…

Whatever it is… It is nice lah… I’ve never eaten things like those before even I was staying in KL… Haha… Hafta thank my eldest brother loh… Haha…

The blazer’s nice… I really think that the tailor gave that price just because my mum’s his son’s teacher… It couldn’t be any better out there… Thanks to the tailor…

Gotta go… Miss you all… Muacks…

It’s less than a week away…

Argh… Another dismal experience during gaming causes me to type this… Hehe… This time is not NFSMW… But The Sims 2… Hahaha… I lost my daughter by sending her to university… I just wanna try and see what’s in university but once they are sent to university they can’t be sent back… And the reason for me to “try” is because my daughter is still not yet ready in terms of skill to obtain the scholarships…. Hahaha… Which shows that going to university is just one way trip… No turning back except for graduating or being kicked out of the institute… Hahaha… Hopefully it’s not going to be the same story as my future… Anyway I think I’ll start the game anew once I go to India… Can’t recover my daughter back though… Cause I’ve deleted it… (In the hope that she’ll appear back in my house, but nope she didn’t) Hahaha…

Back to the last quote… Hahaha… I think it really suits me… It’s something sounds like how a person doesn’t want to turn into adult / 18 years old… Hahaha… This year I am turning 18 in India… Haih… Everything’s so different… Even the national day also we have to celebrate in India… But talking about the national day… Once again I thought of our chinese tuition teacher… Telling us something like how childish it can be for some of our governors… So we chinese people in the city can be deemed as non-patriotic just because of not hanging our national flag?… Hahaha… No comment… As for the rising of snatch-thieving cases, I hope that there won’t be any more funny comments on that… Saying that those handbag manufacturers should make their handbags into easily-detachable type so that the victims won’t be hurt by struggling… Hahaha… No comment again… Or maybe for raping cases, someone said the victims should enjoy instead of fighting back… OKOK… Maybe I should stop here…

But in conclusion, I still love Malaysia!!! That’s all… You want say I don’t love then it’s up to you…

Sometimes I think that it’s better if no people come send me off… Like ATSO that day… I can imagine… No need to shake tears if there’s nobody… Sorry for mentioning this but I think Tas shook some tears because she got quite a number of family members sending her off… I just don’t wanna cry…

Long time no see my Chinese tuition teacher… Haih… I think many people also I long time no see… Haih…

It’s less than a week away… Now everyday seems like the last day I can enjoy… As a student of course…

Of losses and gains…

Long winded post… Warning… Hehe…

Got fed up when NFSMW jumped out to desktop suddenly after I wanted to save in the SafeHouse… Argh…

The date of departure is drawing near… About two more weeks and I’ll have to leave this lovely country…

I don’t know whether this is taoism or buddhism or both, I suddenly wanted to talk about losses and gains… It’s like for everything you gain, you loses something… And also vice versa… They don’t come singly… The theory of duality… Now it’s like Angels and Demons… Hahahahaha… I still remember that day I went back to Chong Hwa for e2 because I left her out in the gathering… (I am terribly sorry about that but it was not done intentionally)… I know whatever I say the wound is still there, I understand, because she’s as sensitive as me… Just hope that she can really let bygones be bygones…

Anyway, during the talk in Chong Hwa Restaurant (Just outside the school sticking to the fence of our front football field), I remember that she mentioned something like she’s losing things during the form 6 years… Something like friends are becoming lesser and lesser because they don’t stay in form 6 or they just simply leave the country (Hui Fen, me, Jee Jing and also I am sure that I missed a few)… So I tell her my opinion that for everything one loses, one will gain another thing… I said although I chose a road which leads me to a completely strange environment (Ya, who say Kai Sing’s not strange? WAKAKAKAKA…) that cause me to lose contact with my friends, in return I get new friends, or maybe something more… And then she agrees with it, that she became close with some other friends which she wasn’t close with during form 5… So the situation still obeys the law…

I hope that it’ll continue to be true till I am in India… Or not only in India, but throughout my whole life… I’ve experienced too much of changes in this kind of friendship matters… I’ve been admitted to a primary school where no one is from the same kindergarten as me… And then the environment changes again when I skipped my Standard 4 after PTS… And another time when I am admitted to Chong Hwa, where there is basically no one can possibly be from my primary school… Why? Because Jalan Gombak and Jalan Ipoh is almost half an hour away (If not taking shortcut by taking a V type route)… And then I am separated from one of my best friends (During form 2 and form 3) when I am in form 4, just because of the stupid mixed-class policy… And then matriculation… (Even in matriculation I have to change from Physics class to Bio class…) And now finally… JPA…

Too much changes… And another change will happen soon… Where it’s the biggest one I’ve experienced… During the last day while I was in my primary school, I’ve basically no feelings in leaving the school… But for secondary school… I started to become a bit like purdah… Where I no longer talks much… Some friends got baffled by my strange behaviours though… but don’t know lah… It was like I was in a fog of unknown… And it remains… Maybe till now… I don’t remember being called as a silent person last time… In fact, a few of my secondary school teachers felt that I am talkative… Some even knocked my head with book or chalk… Haha… But now weimay use that to describe me… Kinda surprise… Haha… Really…

But then… I still don’t know what I am worrying… The psychological test done by JPA showed the right thing… I am seriously in depression… Hahaha… But then I myself don’t know what the problem is… And I once thought of what might happen if I am doing in the field I liked… I think that it won’t cause a difference in this matter… So… I remained in dentistry…

I read the messages from some of my schoolmates during that time when we are about to leave the school… Huifen said that Minfuah thought I am more matured than other people… Hahaha… I should say no because she mistook depression with maturity… Hehe… Or is it maturity? I don’t know because I am not matured enough to figure out the answer… (Huh? Bah… Don’t know WTH I am saying…) Anyway, I think that I am not matured enough to figure out what cause the depression…

Hei! It seems that I know what’s causing the depression… It’s this uncertainty whether I can suit myself to this constant change of matters… But then, how to solve it lah?… Aih… So clueless… Forget it… Maybe should read some buddhism books, because I remembered in the f***ing Moral subject, one of the buddhism doctrines is the constant change in this world, where human shouldn’t have a constant heart, but to have an ever-ready-to-change mindset… Hehe… Correct me if I am wrong… Oh ya, anyhow I think I gotta go get myself a 道德经 Dao De Jing first, to let me understand taoism… Hehe… Don’t get surprised if you happen to see me calling myself a taoist… Wakakakaka… Anyway, during the visit to Popular Bookstore in Ikano Power Centre yesterday (For a launch of a book which is about the chinese schools in Malaysia, where my mum had to represent NUTP/KPPK), I found a 道德经 having both chinese and english translation… Got interested in it but it’s RM 21 something for a book with the same quality as my pirated novels (I’ve recently got myself 射雕英雄传, the prequel to 神雕侠侣)… So no buy… Hehe… Wanna find books about learning Tamil also don’t have… Too bad… Guess that maybe have to go India only got… Haha…

Got myself a few thousands of ASW2020 that day… Lucky… Haha… I think maybe the annual interest can afford my airfare to Jakarta… Airasia of course… Haha… SMS-ed a few people gone for UI… Only Pohwei gave me the contact numbers there… And he also mentioned that the room they living in now is like hotel… Got phone in the room some more… Oh gosh… Don’t make me envy leh… Better go ask Nugrahan (Our agent) get us a phone in our room in India… But then I didn’ t ask him whether the aircond is paid by themselves or what… Because ours in India they say got aircond but have to pay ourselves… Toink… But then we still got bathroom in each room lah… Nugrahan claimed that we can make a swimming pool inside… I think rear some fish still ok lah… Hahaha… But then, it seems that my dad is worrying me to have the idea to go Indonesia… Hopefully he’ll change his mind soon… I wanna go their convo, like today… Hehe…

It’s my second eldest brother’s convocation day today… Again, it’s people mountain people sea… But imagine lah, all the hard work done all these years… Apa boleh buat?… I became his cameraman… but my eldest brother keep scolding me for nothing… Say what not being attentive enough lah… Camera setting don’t put superfine lah… Take picture not fast enough lah (This one I know… Can’t fight Kaising… WAKAKAKAKAKA…)… I wonder why he doesn’t say it in a better manner… Surely he didn’t read 刘墉’s books… I wonder how he’ll get a gf like that… Maybe still can pretend to be nice before marriage lah… But after married ah… Hmmph… No comment… Just witnessed another quarrel between my mum and dad after dad picked up another big piece of junk to bring home to add as collection… Oh yeah, now only I know it’s quite popular to give people convo bears during convo… Got winnie the pooh and snoopie some more leh… I wonder whether got hello kitty for Pohwei onot… Hehehe…

Another shocking news came to me yesterday… My brother’s (That one who’d had convo today) 1100 has been stolen… OMG… Who’s got that bad taste to steal an 1100?… My brother say that time his roommate forgot to shut the door so the stealer saw the phone loh… But he also said that time his digital camera also on the table with the phone leh… The stealer’s really bad taste lah… Oh anyway, anyone who comes steal my phone not only can’t use my credit, but have to crack the security code to unlock the keypad or when insert a new sim card… The fella won’t have an easy life after stealing my cheap handphone… Hahaha… But I am rather worried of how should I keep my current number… Because once I’ve gone to India, and if my sim card is lost, I’ll have to go get a new sim card myself at maxis center… And that’s quite impossible… Haih…

Anyway I played around with his newly bought 1110… I don’t know whether I can call it an enhanced 1100… But all the functions of 1100 are in 1110 (Maybe not all, but I’ve only found one that’s not in 1110) in a similar manner lah of course… And 1110 is stronger in some aspects loh (I mean the function, I don’t know whether it’s as durable as mine, hehehe)… And it’s polyphonic some more leh… Although it’s still b&w screen lah… Nokia claimed that the screen is “distinctive inverted b&w screen”… Means compared to the usual b&w screen, the text or other areas that are black are white, while the empty area is black…. Don’t care… It’s nice enough for me… The price? RM180… My 1100 now priced RM175… I tell you if I am getting a new phone I definitely go get an 1110… But I don’t think I’ll get a new phone unless the old one got itself into any mishap… But last time mine was RM250 leh… Am dui ah!!!!…

5 years… Or maybe I should say 6 years for some of them… Or maybe there’re others who don’t wanna take the chance of leaving their hometown also after graduation… I don’t know… whether I can still have the feelings now… of missing all my friends… Of course I hope I’ll still have them… But I’ve already been startled by a fact… I no longer have feelings towards my primary schoolmates now… Hopefully it’s just because that time we didn’t go through things as much as secondary or foundation times… But that’s the truth I cannot deny… Even in Form 3 I’ve forgotten most of the names… That’s one of the cause of the depression… I don’t want to see the feelings fade so easily…

Hopefully this blog can help me preserve it…

Active again…

With this post, I shall announce that this blog is once again active… I wonder who’re still here to become my audience, or the witness of the crystals… Hahaha… I know I know… I’m bad in these sentimental things… Again… I won’t recall everything that I’ve missed, but just to mention whenever I feel like mentioning it… Haha…

First thing, this is my first post using my laptop… If you asked what laptop is it, it’s Acer’s Aspire 5563 NWXMi, and I seriously don’t know what the NWXMi means… Haha… Specs? Go look for it yourself…

For those that have lost contact with me for a long time, I’d like to tell you that I’ve finished my foundation in KUTPM already… Now waiting to leave for Salem, Tamil Nadu, in case you asked where summore, India. The agent which JPA entrusted gave an interesting speech, but then, it makes me remember of the empty promises made by our dear dewgong in KUTPM… Dare not to hope much as Tralon in Recom poured some cold water… hehe… And also Wei May’s friend which I believe is in the same institute we are heading wrote this: http://suzuhamasaki.blogs.friendster.com/by_suzu_hamasaki… Hopefully everything will be fine… Oh ya, forgot to add… The institute’s name is Vinayaka Mission’s Research Foundation Deemed University, Vinayaka Mission’s Sankarachariyar Dental College. Hahaha… YAY!!! That’s the first time I manage to spell it out… OK… Anyway, wish me luck…

Oh ya… Foundation result… Now… please let me be rude… FUCK MORAL!!!! OK… That’s all… I got a 3.96 because of getting a B+ for the subject… Well, I never thought getting an A anyway… Haha.. Just that I am fed up of being marked as immoral by just someone yang memang tak tahu moral… Hahaha… No more mentioning of the word in front of me… I shall be immoral then if I am marked as immoral like that… Conclusion? Moral education is completely useless and detrimental in my case cause I have no reason to maintain the so called MORALITY… Moral education causes crime rate to increase… YEAH!!!

Thanks to bluepanda for making my gathering successful, and I am really sorry to anyone that I left out for the gathering… It’s not that I did it on purpose, but I really forgot and that time I am quite blur oso… Sorry… Anyway thanks again to bluepanda for giving me the gift… I am using it liao… Really…

And then another gathering at kaising’s house… Found out that kaising’s house got 5 pianos… Wow… Can sell for money liao… Hehe… Met a few frens that din show up in my gathering…

And for Hui Fen’s bon voyage, I hope that I can meet the remaining friends that I haven’t meet… (WTH am I saying…)

Sent off those who went to Belgaum… And also those who went to Jakarta… For the one to India, it was from bright sky till night sky, while for the one to Indonesia, I spent the whole morning.. From dark sky to bright sky… haha… Think that I’ll go send those going to UGM though… Now I am a patron for KLIA… Haha…

A few shook some tears in the airport though… I dare not to imagine what will happen to me when it’s my turn to leave Malaysia… Guess that I’ll be silenced for a few days if I don’t cry… Hmm… Is that why guys have shorter lifespan than gals? Haha… But then really… I remained in deep thought while seeing them entering the security checkpoint… Don’t know when I’ll meet them again… And no Terence, I won’t go love someone else… HAHAHAHAHA… Hope that I can get the chance to go Jakarta to meet all of them there… Oh ya, wish everyone I know in KUTPM and Chonghwa all the best in the future!!! And good luck…

Things to do… Medical checkup don’t know do where… Stupid Borang Soalan Keselamatan don’t know how to fill… Stationery… Still wondering which ball point pen don’t die off before the ink finishes… Haha…

Miss you all and don’t forget me…